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"Find
your passion and have the courage to pursue it..."
President
Lawrence S. Bacow's Baccalaureate Address to the Class of 2002
Sunday, May 19, 2002
Medford/Somerville,
Mass. [05.20.02] -- Members of the class of 2002: How quickly
four years pass. For most of you, I suspect the memory of your
first day on this Hill is still fresh in your mind. You probably
recall moving into your dorm, meeting your roommate, participating
in Matriculation, saying goodbye to your parents. I suspect that
was a very exciting day, but tempered perhaps by a bit of anxiety
as you confronted a new place to live, new challenges, and lots
of uncertainty. Probably like you are feeling right now.
Adele
and I have an acute awareness of what you, and your parents, are
going through. You see, we have a son who also started college
just four short years ago. Like many of you, our son is still
sorting out what to do with the rest of his life. And like your
parents, Adele and still can't believe we are old enough to be
parents of a college graduate. Indeed, this is a journey, a right
of passage that we are all going through together.
On
Sunday you will assemble as a class on the quad for an ancient
and tradition bound ceremony called commencement. I would like
to talk to you about why it is called commencement and not graduation.
Just what, after all, are you commencing?
For
those of you who are not going on immediately to graduate school,
you are commencing your life as an economically independent, and
we hope, productive member of society.
And for all of you, whether you are going on to graduate study
or not, you are commencing the balance of your education. Just
think about it for a minute - an economically independent member
of society. It is sort of a scary thought. While you may have
had summer jobs and term time employment as well, the vast majority
of you have been dependent on your parents for support for the
past 21 or 22 years.
Now
you are entering an uncertain job market in a shaky economy armed
only with your wits, your college loans, and a terrific education.
You are expected to support yourself. I am here to tell you that
you will do fine. Your parents and others have lived through worse.
The economy will improve. You will find a job, perhaps not what
you expected to do, but you will find something.
In
fact, the greatest challenge you will face is being able to recognize
opportunity when it walks up and hits you in the face. Try not
to cling too fiercely to your preconceived notions of what your
future holds.
When
I was in your shoes, I was absolutely convinced I was going to
be a lawyer. It took me three years of law school to realize otherwise.
I chose not to practice law. Instead I pursued a less predictable
career as a scholar and I have never regretted it. Find your passion
and have the courage to pursue it.
No
doubt you will be faced by many choices in your career. Should
I stay in my current job where I am comfortable or should I accept
the new opportunity that has presented itself? I have always found
it useful when confronted with career choices to ask myself three
questions:
First,
is the job worth doing? Not all jobs pass this threshold test.
You must feel good about what you are doing and why you are doing
it.
Second,
will the job provide you with an opportunity to grow and learn?
If you are not growing and learning, you are stagnating. Stretch
yourself.
And
finally, will you enjoy your co-workers? Life is too short to
work with people that you do not respect. There is nothing more
rewarding than to work with good colleagues.
While
it may seem a bit scary today, being on your own is also quite
liberating. Since you started kindergarten your lives have been
ordered by the rhythm of the academic calendar. Like a metronome,
you have marked time in semesters punctuated by winter and summer
vacation, and that great college tradition, spring break.
Moreover,
for at least the last four years, homework has cast a pall over
your nights and weekends. You now get to enjoy a world in which
for now at least, your time is much more your own. I say "for
now" because whatever you do, you will quickly assume more responsibility.
Before long, you will be working longer hours.
Indeed,
the time may come when you start to actually look forward to nights
and weekends as an opportunity to get your work done. When this
happens, it is time to take stock. One of the greatest risks as
you commence your new life is that you will not leave adequate
time for contemplation and reflection.
It
is easy to fall into the trap of constantly seeking professional
achievement and accomplishment without ever finding personal happiness
and fulfillment. I don't think it is an accident that all of the
world's major religions have embraced the concept of a Sabbath
- a time when we pause from work to reflect on the world we inhabit
and our role within it. Even those religions that do not set aside
a specific day of the week for contemplation and reflection recognize
the importance of doing so on a regular daily basis. One does
not have to be religious to set aside time to decompress, to think
deeply, to remove oneself from your daily routine.
Try
to create some sacred space where you can nourish the soul. Try
to find joy in life's simple pleasures - a walk in the woods,
the beauty of a flower, the sound of a child's laughter. Make
sure you leave time for your friends and loved ones. They will
be your most treasured and valuable possessions.
You
are also commencing the balance of your education. College is
not the end but the beginning. I speak not of the siren call of
graduate or professional school. Rather, I speak of the truly
important lessons that you will learn throughout your life and
career.
For
the past four years you have studied hard. You have learned the
great texts, mastered new languages, developed your analytic skills
through the study of math, science and engineering, studied history,
literature, music, and the arts. I could go on.
I
hope, however, that you have also learned something even more
important: what you do not know. For it is at the penumbra between
knowledge and ignorance that the rest of your education begins.
Three of the hardest words to utter when you are starting out
in your career are, "I don't know."
You
are not expected to know everything. In fact, acting as if you
do will only get you into trouble. If nothing else, you will quickly
learn the true meaning of hubris. See your lack of knowledge as
an opportunity to learn, and you will give others the gift of
being able to teach.
Moreover,
you will go through life constantly excited and enriched. To have
studied at a university like Tufts is a great privilege. You did
not get here on your own. Somewhere along the line others helped
you out - parents, teachers, siblings, employers, friends.
While
I hope you will take the time to thank these people, the reality
is that there is no true way that you can ever repay them for
their gifts. I speak not, of course, of any financial assistance
they may have provided. Rather I speak of the small kindnesses,
the special attention, the support, the mentoring, and the concern
for you as a person that these benefactors have bestowed upon
you.
The
only way I know that you can truly honor their contribution is
to carry on the tradition. To do for others what others have done
for you. If you do so, you will make the world a better place,
and you will also find great personal fulfillment. What could
be better?
I
know I speak for the entire Tufts community when I say that we
are enormously proud of you. In the short time I have been fortunate
to be part of this remarkable community I have learned why people
love to work at Tufts: it is because of you, our students. We
draw our energy from you. We are excited to teach you. We love
seeing you perform whether on the stage or on the playing fields.
We enjoy working out along side you in the gym. It helps us older
folks stay young. It
has been our pleasure to get to know you.
We
have watched you enter as wide-eyed freshmen and emerge four years
later as confident young adults. There is nothing more rewarding
for a faculty or staff member than to see the difference they
have made in a student's life. Thank you for giving us this opportunity.
Please keep in touch as you make your way in the world. We have
great expectations for you. Good luck and God speed.
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