| Too
Smart For Their Own Good?
Child
prodigies are often faced with tremendous challenges that can
isolate them from the world around them, says a nationally-renowned
Tufts expert.
Medford/Somerville,
Mass. [03.13.02] -- Throughout
history, child geniuses have been treated with both fascination
and skepticism as the public marvels over their remarkable accomplishments
and looks for their shortcomings and failures. As a result, many
exceptional children can become isolated and feel like outcasts,
says a Tufts expert.
"History
suggests that the lives of children with prodigious intellects
or extraordinary talents are rarely easy," reported the New
York Times. "Indeed, in a world where such children stand
out like Gulliver among the Lilliputians, they are often filled
with difficulty."
The
problem, says Tufts' Dr. David Henry Feldman, stems from the way
the public views people with mental gifts.
"There
seems to be a deep contradiction in how we feel about matters
of the mind," Feldman told the Times. "On the one hand,
we believe that working hard is the way you become whatever you
want to become, one the other hand, that I.Q. is inherited and
you have it and that's that."
Often,
the public focuses on finding the children's faults and shortcomings.
"[When a child prodigy appears] it makes us feel uneasy and ambivalent,"
Feldman, a professor of child
development at Tufts, told the Times. "Nobody likes
to feel that someone else is flat-out better. And almost always
what people say is: 'Is it fraud? Is the child happy? Is the child
normal?'"
In
many ways, genius children are not normal. Their mental talents
and gifts propel them into an adult world while they are still
children.
"The
talent changes everything," Feldman told the Boston Globe in
1999. "We can't make them into being just like us except for having
this talent. It's just not true -- it's irresponsible. We celebrate
diversity, but somehow or another this kind of diversity we just
can't grasp. It's just different. It's like being in a different
culture."
And
it's easy to become isolated.
"Dr.
Feldman and other experts said children of remarkable abilities
often feel like aliens themselves, traveling at warp speed through
a slow-moving world," reported the Times.
It
is often up to the children's parents to help them find a path
that satisfies their intellectual curiosity with disconnecting
them from the world around them.
"It
is crucial for their parents to find the right teachers to guide
them," reported the Houston Chronicle. "People who work
with prodigies, Feldman said, must encourage but not demand. They
must mold talent but not squash creativity. And they must, above
all else, remember that their children are still children and
not just miniature adults."
The
pressures can be overwhelming.
According
to the Chronicle, "Only one thing is certain, Feldman's
research has found: All child prodigies go through a tough time
on the way to maturity, often questioning their own gifts and
in some cases even abandoning them."
But
there are success stories.
Norbert
Weiner -- who graduated from Tufts in 1909 at the age of 15 --
is one such example. After completing his studies at Tufts, "[Weiner]
went on to develop the branch of science known as cybernetics,
which deals with the relationship between communication and control
in the human brain and in machinery," reported Newsday.
But
Tufts' Dr. Feldman suspects that many child prodigies have a difficult
time living up to their promise.
"Generally
speaking, it's a treacherous path," Feldman told the Times.
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